Meet in the Middle 2

Join the KC Bear Mafia, The Show Me Bears from St. Louis and the Mid-Missouri Bears in Columbia, MO on April 12, 2014.

Our host bars in Columbia will be the SOCO and The Hideout. We will kick off the weekend at The Hideout at 1:00pm. Then join us at SOCO to party the night away.

The bars are putting the final touches on the day and more details will be posted as we get them.
Then after the bar join us at the After Bar Party back at the Hotel. Last year was a night to remember!

Our host hotel is the Days Inn located at 900 Interstate 70 SW Drive Columbia, MO 65203. Yes, boys, there is an indoor pool. ūüėČ

Our rate for the hotel is $59.99 for a King Room and $79.99 for a double. We have a set of rooms for our group.
To reserve a room you will need a reservation #, which you can get by contacting David Lopez. IM, or E-Mail @ email hidden; JavaScript is required.

Don’t miss out on a great weekend as we shake off this winter and party to bring in Spring and an awesome time to meet some great bears from Columbia, Kansas City and St. Louis.

Check out the event from our Facebook group here: (You must be a member of the KC Bear Mafia Facebook group)

Where the Bears Are Kickstarter

Thanks to everyone that braved the weather and came out last night to Hamburger Mary’s! We were able to help raise $400 for our friends who create “Where the Bears Are”!

They still haven’t quite hit their goal and still have a few days to go so if you weren’t able to come out last night please check out their Kickstarter page or head over to their website for more information. We’ve had the stars/creators out to visit us a few times and we definitely want them to keep coming back to us so check out the cool backer gifts you can get by participating!

Stay tuned for some updates on Meet in the Middle 2014 and Bear Crossing!


Weekend Update – 01/03/2014

Happy New Year, everyone!

Check out what’s going on this weekend:


There are currently no Bear Mafia events scheduled for this evening so it might be a great time to check out the new video bar Industry at 3700 Broadway in KCMO. Check out the slushies! Also, Hamburger Mary’s is having Charity Bingo to raise support for the Luv4Pugs animal charity starting at 8pm!


Saturday is a busy day!

There is still plenty of time to get involved to help us put on Bear Crossing KC 2014! Message Matt Stanley on Facebook if you are interested in finding out how you can be involved!

The previously postponed Naughty Party will be taking place this Saturday at 7pm at Social Bar KC! Join us for an evening of fun games, white elephant gift exchange and lots of laughs. Our annual holiday party is definitely not one to be missed! Get more info here:

Later that night get ready for Bear Bust: Blackout! Hamburger Mary’s third annual celebration of the darkest month of the year! Find out what goes “bump” in the night! Party starts at 9pm. $3 cover at the door.¬†

We hope everyone had an amazing 2013 and we are looking forward to an unbelievable 2014 as we celebrate 5 years of the KC Bear Mafia! Don’t forget to like us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to stay connected to all the latest Bear Mafia news and updates!

A big welcome to all the new members who have liked us on Facebook and joined the group! We can’t wait to see you at the events!

Naughty Party Postponed

Due to the freezing rain and potential for a lot of snow we’re going to postpone our annual Naughty Party. We are planning on having it 01/04/2014 at the same place at the same time. We will post more details once everything is confirmed.

Stay safe and warm and happy holidays from the Bear Mafia!

Bear Crossing Kansas City – 2014

We are proud to announce Bear Crossing Kansas City! KC’s first bear run will take place August 15th through the 17th in 2014 as we celebrate the 5 year anniversary of the Bear Mafia. Join us by partying for a great cause to support LikeMe Lighthouse. Stay tuned here for details or check out!


Weekend Update – 12/06/2013

Good Morning KC Bear Mafia and Happy Friday!

Don’t forget only 16 more shopping days til the Annual Naughty Party! What you’ve never heard of it? It’s our annual holiday party filled with a night of fun games such as Porno Password, Cock Ring Toss and Bloody Tampon Toss. Also that night we have the White Elephant Sex Toy Gift exchange.¬†
Don’t miss out¬†Saturday December 21, 2014. Click here for details.¬†¬†
The Heartland Men’s Chorus presents, Baby It’s Cold Outside.¬†Forget that chill in the air‚ÄĒthe men of the Chorus will keep you toasty warm this winter with fun holiday favorites and a stocking full of seasonal surprises. Show starts tonight and runs through¬†Sunday¬†at the Folly Theater. Click here for details.¬†¬†
Want to be a little more dirty tonight? Well stop by Hamburger Mary’s for the Friends of Dirty Dorothy Show at¬†8PM. Click here for details.¬†
Join the Bears for the Holiday Season and gay old times at Bear Bust Hairy XXX-Mas.¬†HAIRY XXX-MAS will feature Hot House and Channel 1 adult film star, total top cub extraordinaire,¬†Alessandro Del Toro! He’s promised Mary that he will bring a lot of fun surprises for all the boys, both nice and naughty Be sure to say hi to those outta town bears that dropped in for this party from Wichita and Omaha.¬†
¬†Jello and Pudding shots will be sold by KC Bear Mafia’s hot cubs! Don’t miss out on our the exciting announcement that night!¬†
Aslo as we are gearing up to an exciting 2014 be sure to share with us any ideas or suggestions for events, parties fundraisers or get togethers you would like to see. 
Stay home and do nothing this weekend?? FURRGETT about it! 


Weekend Update – 11/15/13

Good Morning KC Bear Mafia and Happy Friday,

Sorry for the hiatus as we’ve been working on some of the big things coming your way next year-that being the Bear Run that will help us celebrate our 5 year anniversary.
We are currently looking for those people who would be interested in helping put together this huge event. Please contact our Events Chair Matt Stanley @ email hidden; JavaScript is required.
Hamburger Mary’s has a fun packed night for you-first with Mary’s Big Game show¬† Followed by Fast Times at Hamburger High.¬†¬†Looking for something fun to do be sure to come on down and check it out.
Join the KC Bear Mafia as we head north to hang with some Big O Bears. Join us as we party with the newly formed Big O Bears of Omaha. No Bear meet up would be complete without food. So we are having dinner at Spaghetti Works at 5pm.
Then join as we take over The Maxx.¬†’t miss out on a fun night our of town.
Welcome new members Allan Russell, Norm Melichar, Jon Colvin, Ronnie Lathrop and John Coulter. We certainly hope you guys can join us at one of the above events or one in the future.
Stay home and do nothing this weekend?? Furrgetabout!!!

Bear Mafia is planning a Bear Run in Kansas City for 2014!

Last month we had a meeting to discuss ideas for our Big Event for 2014. We announced here right after that we were exploring the idea of a bear run here in Kansas City. Well, we have been doing our due diligence, and met with some key allies, and I am very proud to announce that the Kansas City Bear Mafia WILL be putting on a bear run in 2014!!!

There will be MANY opportunities to get involved with putting on this event, and we are inviting anyone that would like to be a part of Kansas City’s inaugural bear run to speak up, step forward, and join in on what is truly going to be a special time for the Kansas City bear community, and it’s allies! There is so much planning and work to be done over the coming months, and I, along with the other committee leaders and committee members look forward to working along side you!

If you would like to get involved in the planning and carrying out of this special event, please contact Matt Stanley or any of the other committee leaders on FB, and you will be added to the run committee. There will be regular meetings to attend, and various tasks to be carried out during this process. Among things to be decided at the first meeting(not yet scheduled), our bear run name and theme! You may also email me at email hidden; JavaScript is required with any questions or interest in getting involved. Looking forward to hearing from you all!

Weekend Update – 10/11/2013

Good Morning KC Bear Mafia and Happy Friday!

Plenty of stuff to keep you occupied this weekend -so get out of the house and have some fun!



Get your weekend going with an extra kick of caffeine at Bear Coffee. Join the Bears at Crossroads Coffee starting at 4pm. Always a good time with the bears and a great way to meet some of the different guys in our group.


Bear Volleyball- OK so the weather is getting colder but these bears are still out there hitting their balls. Come check out what the fuss is all about before we roll it up for the season. Starts at 10am at Weltner Park. Everyone is welcome regardless of skill!

Bear Mafia at Worlds of Fun Halloweekend- join in and get ready to laugh at how easy the bears scare! A group is hitting Worlds of Fun Saturday for Halloween Haunt. They are meeting at the front gate at 630pm. Scare you there.


Mafia Movie Day Machete Kills-they just keep messing with the wrong Mexican. Check out Carlos Estevez’s new movie with the bears. Ward Parkway AMC @ 10:40am.

The time has come! We are preparing the planning stages for…..well we don’t know for sure yet, so that is where you come in. We are looking to plan our big event next year and need your help. Whether it be a big dance or a run??? We will be meeting at Red Snapper at 1:30pm Sunday -hey that’s right next to AMC Ward Parkway ūüėČ

Reminders- Hibearnation is just a few weeks away! Don’t forget to get your registration before the price hike on October 21st.

The Big O Bears in Omaha are hosting the KC Bear Mafia on November 16th. We will be heading there for a night of food, fun and fur!

Welcome new members Dwight Alberhasky, Jim Winters, Cegan Cardenas, Eric Christensen, Zach Mallory, Jeremy Kalina, William Yandell, Larry Plant and Tony Martinez. We hope you guys can join us at one of the above events or one in the future.

Stay home and do nothing this weekend?? FURRGET ABOUT IT!!!